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Thank you for responding to my concerns about my relationship with a woman, who I am hoping I am not casting judgement on a sick lady. I thought when I saw signs of jealous tendencies, was a joke, especially if she thought I was looking at other women.
The last time I saw her, I wanted to say good bye in a classy way by giving her a rose and a card. It was her idea to end it! She brought 2 of her friends with her to the club. I ask her what her friends knew; she said she told them, due to how full her plate was full. I said this would be fine, however, she told them something different!! One lady who I never seen in my life was rude by her comments. (Nothing really for me to over react but her role to act as her bodyguard).The other lady who I had met before, said she wasn't interested in a relationship. All of Denise's behavior was of she was a victim, but how far from the truth. I gave her the gifts and she did not acknowledgement my gesture. During the event, it was raining and I gave her my umbrella; when I went outside, I saw my umbrella torn up and thrown in the bushes. I did call her later to ask her why , my umbrella in the bushes. She said it broke!! Guess it was the gesture and the lack of appreciation, I took it personal and I know she has some issues but it hurt my heart, as I was trying to be a true gentleman. Any ideas?
Should I give her space? I do not give up on people when they need it, however, I realize u cant save people. This is the attitude during my wife's journey battling cancer. She lost the battle!! I was there