MrsRuss0114 : Hello and thank you for choosing just answer, I look forward to assisting you.
MrsRuss0114 : I'm sorry you're going through this.
MrsRuss0114 : It seems like this guy has a ton of personal things he needs to work out and probably has no idea how to manage the feelings he has for you on top of everything else.
yeah I was thinking that also, the silence from his is really hurting me and he doesnt seem to care
MrsRuss0114 : Instead of trying to get him back, the best thing would probably be for you to reiterate your feelings for him but in addition to that, share with him that you're willing to give him space to work whatever it is he has going on out but that you'll be there for him if needed.
i have text him saying things like that he hasn't responded at all
MrsRuss0114 : He probably has an emotional wall up as it is very overwhelming trying to manage the multitude of feelings good and bad.
MrsRuss0114 : That's all you can do, you've shared with him how you feel and when he's ready, it's up to him to respond.
yeah I just needed someone to talk to about it all thank you
MrsRuss0114 : In the meantime, you have to be understanding that he's probably going through a ton with the separation and depending on the status of that, it can cause any person to shut off.
yeah he just led me to believe so many things that i just cant forget overnight :(
MrsRuss0114 : You're most welcome. I'd also like to say that you should determine for yourself how long you're willing to wait because you also deserve to be happy.
yeah i know he wouldn't do the same for me but i fell for him really hard and fast :(
MrsRuss0114 : None of us can, that just means you're human but more importantly you feel love, hurt, sadness, happiness and we need all of those things to keep us grounded and to appreciate all of the successes in life and relationships.
and i was sure he felt the same way until he shut down
MrsRuss0114 : And he very well may but, men are concrete, they compartmentalize especially when it comes to feelings and emotions.
yeah thankyou i got to get back to work cheers XXXXX XXXXX chat
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