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everytime me and my husband goes to bed at night and I want

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everytime me and my husband goes to bed at night and I want to have sex he always finds
some excuse not to. what am I doing wrong?
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There may be nothing wrong with you. What you are doing is normal. What he is doing is not normal. It could be that he has low testosterone or another chemical imbalance. He should be evaluated by his doctor and testosterone levels obtained. If it is low, he will be provided with a patch to increase his testoterone levels and this will increase his sex drive.
He may also have erectile dysfunction (ED) and there is medication for that too.
I hope this works for you.

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