jenhelant : Hi Welcome back
jenhelant : I am sorry about what you are going through right now, but I would try not to worry too much.
jenhelant : At this point you are both trying to see where you both stand and still balance everything.
jenhelant : It may take some time, but lots of communication is good and important.
jenhelant : The fact that she called her grandmother the same name that she called you I understand can be difficult and hurtful, but I really don't think she meant it in a bad way. She feels you both are her love, but in different ways of course. Even though she called you both the same name it was not meant with the same intention.
jenhelant : I understand it hurts to be apart from her, but time apart can make you both miss one another and make the time together even better. Try not to allow yourself to feel hurt, but rather use the alone time to do your own things and plan on how you can make the time together better. If you spend your time upset then overall that can hurt the time you both have when you are together.
She literally text me 10 minutes after she left in our old dumb ways. I feel better just a bit weird over how backwards we have both given our all to each other. The time and space I feel just makes us feel a bit awkward at least on my end because I try to fake that I feel so depressed with I am not with her so when I get time together I try to not show how much I've really missed her.
jenhelant : It's ok to miss her and show it that will show her how you care, but is good to practice staying active and doing things you enjoy when not with her. That is healthy and will make you feel better when you are together.
jenhelant : Enjoy the time together because it seems like she misses you the same when not with you.