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Ok, I just meet a guy online today and we have made arrangements to meet up Thursday. At first I told him I need to get a babysitter and lets meet up this weekend, and he asked why I can come over and we can all fun till the baby falls asleep. I later text. I do let guys come until I get to knwo them better and woudl you us meeting in a public place and I dont mind bring the kid with me? After I caught what i text I said Idont let guys come over, and he text I wasto say you will turn off with that last text. I told him to call me later with the detail and he calls in 10 minutes, and asked would you have a problem bringing bringing your daughter with when we go out because my son was masulated by his uncle. He proceeded to tell he trust no one not even family and he starts to curse and asked would Ihave a problem with because we can cut it off now and you can find another man. I mean he seem to curse alot and I asked do you curse around kids and he said i try not to but sedomly. He told me if we go out alone he trust his cousin to watch her because he knows he will nt let any touch her. I am on the phone saying to myself I dont knw you or your cousin, I found he smoke ciageretts and explain my daughter has ashma. I am debating if I should even go out with him or meet him. from the looks of his pic he looks nothing like he sounds, Any thoughts? I need to add he text earlier and ask if I wanted to pursue this and I told him if you enjoy each ohter company then yes. So I believe he already took the role that i am his. He tells I dont play games and I will let you know what on my mind if I hurt your feeling s arenot. He says as far as anybody watching the baby you will have double f/****ing protection with me , I wanted to kill my uncle for touching my son but family told me not to, Does he have too much baggage to deal with?
I just texted him and said sorry I dont think this will work. He responsed no probelm..thank you for letting me know now I dont have to waste my time. I did not respond. Normally, I am always passive in getting to know someone but I glad I do. he reminded of my ex bf that was mentally abusive too me.