Deardebra : I would call back tomorrow and leave a message that you missed their call.
Deardebra : You want to keep open lines of communication either them. Tomorrow is your day to call so you want to call.
Deardebra : Some times people have trouble telling others how they feel.
Deardebra : while others have no problem expressing themselves.
Deardebra : you want to always be open and honest on how you feel and then the person might also tell you how they feel.
Deardebra : Some people do not always know how to connect with others because they might be shy
Deardebra : peopleshy people some times do not know how to express how much a friendship means too them.
Deardebra : Some people would rather talk on the phone while others might prefer to text or email.
Deardebra : If this is a new friendship that will take time to connect.
Deardebra : people need time to adjust to having someone new in their lives.
Deardebra : if this has been a long term relationship already them that just might be their personality. Some times people seem like they are not connecting but it is just their personality.
Deardebra : I feel that if there was any problems they just would stop calling all together. They would be avoiding calling, they are not doing that, they called but you were not able to answer. They might have not called back right away because they are busy.
Deardebra : i am sure they are tryng to set aside time for you.
Deardebra : Some times people need more time to make that special connection.
Deardebra : once they know that you are going to be there they might realize that they have a wonderful friendship with you.
Deardebra : Every friendship builds trust.
Deardebra : i would continue to make a connection.
Deardebra : i am sure they appreciate your friendship.
Deardebra : i would call them tomorrow.
Thanks, XXXXX XXXXX say that in a normal relationship the person/people would just call back to
say what it was or leave a message and say that they needed to talk later? Should
something have happened other than what did, I am assuming that it
maybe did not have to, but what is it?
If they are really busy, can people be too busy for that, are they usually, any suggestions about
how to keep from having the calling be a problem? They already said it was OK, but
any way to insure it is, is this all in your answer earlier? If so, good, then any
suggestions on how to build trust?
Not always, some times people do not leave any messages because they just have intentions on calling back, so they don't leave a message. Some times people just do not like leaving messages, they would just rather call back.
I feel you handled things very well.
Some times people are so busy they have trouble just sitting down to have a conversation. People work long hours or they have so many things they have to catch up on some times making time is hard. People often set time aside these days like actually setting time aside to call people back.
They had said it was ok, so that means everything is fine.
Yes, You can build trust by being there and listening to things that are going on in there life even if it is something small.
People often like to talk about things that are going on in there life and giving positive messages is always a good thing to help them and be supportive of what is going on in their lives.
It shows them that you care.
and that you want to share in their lives.