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This issue seems small but it could have deeper meaning and would like some perspective. I am getting married soon. A few weeks ago, my fiance seemed excited to have an opportunity to pay for my airline ticket when we travel after the wedding. He and I have not been through conventional dating so I have not known this side of him where males usually pay for 'dates,’ etc. I was really touched with his generosity and excitement was much appreciated. At the same time, I am feeling uncomfortable with him paying for my expense… I do understand that he is going to be my husband and thus it is ok for him to do this, but I just need a little more time into accepting somebody taking care of my expenses in this involved manner (which he wants too). I expressed this to him and he requested me to try and accept it because he would feel really fortunate to want to do such things right after our marriage.
So my question is: