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Hi Karin Samms I did message her through facebook but i

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Hi Karin Samms

I did message her through facebook but i don't see any reply from her back.

i could like your recommendation what should i do to get in touch with her? To me she really mean a lot of.

from william
Hi William,

Thank you for requesting me, I will do my best to support your query.

If you are certain it is definitely her on this Facebook account, she may not have a) looked at her messages as yet, b) she may have looked at it but not decided what to do about it or perhaps even c), she does not recognize you.

Please also be aware it is currently around the Easter vacation period and some people are not near Internet connections etc..

Did you both have any special connection/ relationship at high school together? If so, she may be unsure as to what to do, it was a very long time ago and sometimes women (or even men) might struggle to talk to people from back then. William, give it some more time, say a week, and if by then there is no contact it may be best to leave it for a while longer and then try again. If this is the case, I would definitely leave it for a couple of weeks and then send a new message saying something like:

"Hi xx, I wondered if you'd picked up my message? Perhaps you didn't. I was wondering if you remember me from xx school etc..., I was hoping to catch up with you, please do let me know what you think. If you'd prefer to not be in touch, I would understand, there is no pressure, just thought it would be great to chat. My best wishes to you, William."

What do you think? I hope this is helping, please do come back to me for further assistance and support if you need it, I'd rather support you as much as possible and receive a positive rating and I'd be more than happy to continue supporting you until you feel satisfied.
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