Deardebra : I want you to be open and honest just like you are doing.
Deardebra : A relationship is all about communication.
Deardebra : If you have something in your mind you were restless sleeping. You need to tell him why and be honest, you both should set a time aside to talk about what is going on. The only way to have a strong lasting relationship is telling each other your wants and needs in this relationship.
Deardebra : If something is bothering you, you tell him for now on I going to be telling you how I feel. This is important because one thing in relationships is you never want the other person guessing in what is wrong.
Deardebra : If he knows how you feel then he will be able to fix and solve the problem.
Deardebra : You also did not see him for four days do emotions run high when your excited to see someone you just wanted that time his fully attention to talk and to just connect with each other.
Deardebra : I feel you were very clear about your feelings but some times when people love someone so much they don't want to hear there is a problem in the relationship some times they ignore it hoping it goes away. I feel this is what he is doing. He wants the relationship to be perfect but things need to be discussed in order for them to get to perfect.
Deardebra : Communication will resolve And bring you both closer because there will be no hidden feelings.
Deardebra : Your right in telling him how you feel but he needs to be open to listening and be understanding.
Deardebra : He needs to not look at that you both need to talk as something negative. He needs to know that it will make the relationship stronger.
Deardebra : You also were clear you were not trying to hurt him so that was good so he knows problems can be fixed.
Deardebra : i want you to contact him again do he knows you just need to talk, you just need him to be there just to listen.
Deardebra : He will understand once you both talk everything out.