Yes, you greatly helped me! I had a discussion with my fiancé after work and I asked him if he felt satisfied by me sexually, put out enough, was experimental enough and puzzled by the question, he told me our sex life was great and he hoped I felt the same way about him, and I said, I just sometimes feel like there's more that I could do and I know there's things he likes me to do that aren't particularly my favorites. I finally confessed that I accidentally snooped through his history when he had loaned me his lap top to print out a document and then I also noticed that he tried to delete his history. (My lap tops not connected to the printer) He was super embarrassed lol! He was like, I'm sorry, I didn't want to hurt you in any way, and it was pretty much what I had thought, that he uses the sites as a visual aid, and we talked more about porn in general, and he was all, "I don't care if you look at it too, I think there'd only be a problem if one of us chose that over actually being physically intimate. He told me that he prefers me to a computer screen. He also told me that he knows the difference between fantasy and reality, and he doesn't expect me change unless I want to, becaus he thinks I'm perfect." So bottom line, I was glad that he was at least honest with me, didn't lie about it and I actually kinda felt bad for him because he was super embarrassed, not as embarrassed as the time his mom caught him, but I didn't blame him, I'd be embarrassed too if he saw some of the sites I've looked at in the past. We even talked about how would spice things up even more, and he wanted to know what my fantasies were. So yea, I think we're good. He hasn't really talked about that girl lately, but I notice when he does, it's usually work related stuff or when they all go to lunch together. He works contract, and lately he's voiced to me that he's kinda over that place, because he want's something permanent, and lately we've been talking more and more about our goals for after we get married, stuff like that. I used to have class on Tues nights but this quarter I don't, so it surprised me that he was going to have dinner at his mom's that's what he usually did when I had school. He didn't know my schedule changed, so just to be sure he was going to go where he said he was, I was going to call him after he got off of work, but he beat me to it, and then I made up a reason to call him as he was supposed to be done with dinner, and he answered, I did have a legitimate question for him, and he couldn't talk long because he was talking with his mom, so I was all, "Oh tell her I said hi!" And he relayed the message back to her, and I could here her voice, so yea, I feel like I can trust him. He usually is where he says he's going to be and I even have proof that he was.