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Hi and thanks for writing, are you there?
Nice to see you and thanks for writing
so I have read your post
and just have to ask you? why are you afraid to tell him that it is just a no go on your part?
what stops you?
I think we got disconnected
are you there?
He's just such a sweetheart, and we only text. And I'm so uncomfortable calling him to do it. I'm afraid of having to answer why. I like him alot and I think I'm not 100% sure of how I feel
Sorry that took so long
oh my no problem I thought we had a glitch here at JA so no worries
so if you are not interested in him why dont you tell him that so he can find someone who is interested in him
you do not wish to hurt him but yet you are by not letting him go
am I right?
Yes that's very true
shouldnt he be "free" to find someone who does like him?
Ok I'll just do it
so let him go and understand that by holding onto him when you do not want him is a way of holding him from finding someone who does
and it takes a lot of guts to do this
Can I ask what you think about texting it?
Atta girl, classy
he wants you and so far he does not KNOW that he does not have you so he is trying
Ok. Yeah that's true
bless him, lusting after you and of course I know you are smart but he also probably knows you are also gorgeous, charming, etc
I am sure you are, right?
Haha, of course, hehe
I get it.
I already knew you were very very smart.
Lol you're awesome :)
But I am also sure you are an attractive young lady so you can imagine what he is thinking and yea I think the best policy is to be very very kind
and just let him go
be very kind please
I wouldn't want to be anything but kind to him
Yep knew that about you. :)
He's an absolute sweetheart
It will be fine. Just do what is hard to do and end it and absolutely let him know, in no uncertain terms that you think he is wonderful and a sweetheart. Absolutely let him know this while you are cutting that cord.
Awwe I think that's really good advise. Thank you
He might very well become a good friend of yours and he might very well dance at your wedding when you do meet the right guy.
I wish you all the best. Smart cookie you are.
Awwe that would be so cool
Thank you so much for your help
Yep I think so too. Night now smart one.
You're pretty smart too :). Ok goodnight