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IM 15 and my girl friend wants me to finger her but I dont

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IM 15 and my girl friend wants me to finger her but I don't want to

Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Jen Helant replied 4 years ago.

jenhelant :

Hello, If you do not want to do this behavior then there is nothing wrong with her. Let her know that it is nothing personal against her, but you rather not become sexual yet. Explain that you want to enjoy one another company and focus on school. Tell her how much you like her and prefer to wait to get involved with those acts. If there is a specific reason why you do not want to that I am missing and you would like to discuss then please let me know. I would like to help you further if needed.