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My husband I have been married for 7 years. We were basically high school sweethearts. Two yrs after we were married we had our first son. We suffered through a lot of fertility issues, including a time where I had a tubal pregnancy, which the doctors had to terminate the pregnancy that led me heartbroken and no one to cry on. My husband just ignored me and never once offered any support during this hard time, which drove us a little bit apart (emotionally). A while after we connected again and had our twin daughters. This was very challenging but we stayed pretty close. Then when the twins were two months old we had found out that I was pregnant with my last baby. So I had four kids, our oldest was 4 yrs. I hired on nanny to help out with the kids, which helped a lot with them. However, my relationship with my husband just keeps going the other way. All we do is argue, I lost the ability to argue back, it usually ends with me walking away because I don't care no more. My husband doesn't appreciate anything I do, and lectures me for every little thing. I can honestly say we don't love eachother any more. We stay together for the kids. My brother and his wife got a divorce and there kids are so messed up emotionally. I don't want my kids to be that way. I don't know what to do. We saw a marriage concealer and it helped a little but I think our love cant be repaired. What should I do?