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My thinking is moving forward is stay barely in touch with him, only see how he is doing and not completely disappear. He doesn't burden me with his problem at all, he alctually hided from me the depth ofthose problems untill recently. If he texts or calls it is to talk to find how things are going. The problem is he texts me everyday, and he probably will call me often too, he used call me everyday.2 weeks ago I asked him not to contact me (and Id idn't know again the depth of his problems) so I can move and meet the right man... he waited for a couple of days at th emost and contacted me again saying that he misses me, and want to say hello. When he found out that I will be in the city he could not imagine that we would not meet for at least a brunch or else. So, it is difficult situation, I feel lik ehe wants me be there for him and wait for better times... He said a day ago , he understands where I am coming from regardinghim not being very affectionate lately or romantic and so on, but he needs to focus on his situation and he is a bit frustrated. I feel so bad for him but atthe same time I do not want dragd in...
He understands that he is not giving me what I want and I understand that even if trully loves me he is probably not capable at this time of focusing on love and relationship and sure if it would change. What would be your assessment of this situation and advice?