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Lack of intimacy with the man I am marrying in 6 months

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Lack of intimacy with the man I am marrying in 6 months
Submitted: 5 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Doctor Kevin replied 5 years ago.
Thank you for choosing this website. Your writing because you plan to marry in six months someone whom you are in love with. You have talked with him about lack of intimacy in the relationship and he has told you that he does not ever initiated intimacy. He is being truthful with you and it is unlikely that this will change anytime soon. He may have grown up in a psychological environment where men showed a marked lack of concern for women and were completely involved in satisfying their own needs. As a result, being a sensitive young man he has decided never to be like that with his sexual needs in relation to women. This type of man will only be sexually compatible with a very forceful and direct woman who will initiate sexuality. He may be very attracted to you but when it comes to initiating intimacy he is psychologically incapable. I see that you are currently off-line and I am very interested in your response to my interpretation.