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I asked why he feels this way and he said "I don't know why i feel this way it;s just me.Could it be that he feels that i want more than he is capable of giving emotionally/
I asked if it could be that he feels I want more than he is capable or willing to give emotionally
That was not a quote from him, it was a supposition on my part,he did not say that. I only asked you if that could be the case.
Two more things he said that may be of help."I can't sit next to you and not drink"My reply I don't need to drink to sit next to you" His reply "You are a better person than I"
I made the statement" At some point in life one has to be satisfied with who they are, and what they have, and that I was."His reply "I wish that I were where you are"
Would you say that this reinforces what you said about feelings of inadequacies?
I see you gave me a negative rating. Is there something more that you need? If so, just ask and I’d be happy to help.he seems to be making comparisons with you and his behaviors when he is with you in particular that he cannot control himself especially around drinking alcohol. My question to him would be why do you feel the uncontrollable urge to drink in front of me?
I gave the negative rating because my last reply was not answered, however I also gave a positive rating for the answered questions.
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