thanks for your reply. my text to him was very casual suggesting that he and i should catch up with each other, as to have a casual chat.
even so, if he cared much for me, he would have jumped to replying to the text, wouldn't he?
in fact, i wrote a letter before the text , but was persuaded by my friend to send the text instead. in the letter, i explain why i could not answer to his request at the time, and i also explained the reasons why i hoped to be friends instead. i felt that he was very cautious about me during the time while we were going out. he segregated his work from me and was unhappy if i asked him personal questions. he never asked about me. due to the problems as described, i did not know and still do not know how to be boyfriend/girlfriend due to what i perceived.
Q1) i am wondering whether it is good to write about the problems and explain because of them, he and i should be just friends now.
Q2) is it true that if a guy truly loves a woman would jump to the opportunity provided in order to see that woman? if so, his not replying is a manifestation that he does not really like me that much, isn't it?
Q3) after 6 months of separation, if a guy still ask the girl out, would that mean anything?
Q4) some experts suggest that i should only write about the good things but not the bad, if i want to get him to accept me. some suggest to be honest without using the tactics of avoidance. what are your views?
as i get different views on all the confusing queries, i asked you to give your opinion so that i could have perhaps a better judgement about it all. and i thank you for this.