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Good morning Dr. Paige, I just wanted to give you an update; After the last dissappointing meeting with Cindy and the way she acted i see that she was being petty about my dropping by to pick up leftovers. First of all..she tried saying that I was being presumptious and rude for wanting to come by and pick up...to me, if I had have dropped by unannounced, that may be the case..by calling in advance and Asking...I don't think so, I feel it was her being petty...Since then, I found out the guy she was seeing was in the hospital and had surgery..she let him come stay at her house after he was released from hospital...She had been telling me they were nothing more than friends now...give me a break...I am not stupid. He has been staying at her house from the hospital for over a week now..He also is not even employed at the time...
I see all of this big blow up with her was only an excuse to get rid of me because she knew he was going to be back..staying there again. I have three different women interested in me, two which are younger, 39 yrs old the other is older and ready to settle down. I plan to see all three and have fun for a change. Not break any hearts but to prove to myself that i know I have still got it and deserve much better than the treatment I was getting from Cindy. I have finally reached the point that enough is enough. I know she has been playing mind games and cannot even be honest with herself, much less me or anyone else. i feel sorry for her in one sense but frankly, I have no desire to ever see her again and will not initiate anymore contact. It took me a long time to reach this point but I feel so much better for having done so..