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I can imagine how frustrating this situation must be for you. You're the guy she's dating right now and what kind of loyalty is it if she's checking up on an old flame?
This is how we males think. And so when we males check up on women we've dated in the past, that's a sure sign of interest in her. Males might not actually do something to carry out that interest, but the desire's there. Women are not necessarily like this.
She can be looking for exactly the reason she says and it is more often than not really the reason. Women really are that curious without the curiosity being an active desire. When men are curious about a woman, they almost always have some active desire for her. Women more often than not are just curious because they've had some connection, but not because they want a current connection.
So, she most likely is telling you truthfully why she did it. But you are right that you can't be sure of this. However, that means only that you keep it in the background. It's like if you saw one quirky behavior in her personality, you wouldn't act totally from that one quirk; you'd say to yourself that you're waiting to see if it's a pattern. Same here. If it isn't repeated, then you know in a while that it was okay, which it probably will be. So yes, keep on dating.
Okay, I wish you the very best!
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