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Good morning. We have spoken before. I am happy to work with you again.
It can be tough to be newly single...a lot of emotions get brought up since you recently had an ending and now you are back out there and trying to figure out if someone else might be interested. You are great at figuring it out and i remember that from when we spoke last time. I would suggest that you be out there and enjoy your time with AD or this other guy and just have fun. It sounds like you want a relationship but there is plenty of time for that. AD might be enjoying his time with you and leading up to asking you out. I think a great course of action for you since you are newly single is to be out there, enjoy yourself and let things fall into place as they do.
I don't think any of us can make ourselves care less as you asked, but you can care more about you...meaning let yourself live and enjoy this space and have fun.
Thanks Jen :) I was happy to see you were the one that responded to my question, I really liked your advice last time.
you went through a difficult period with the ex so I am just wanting you to let yourself be free and enjoy whatever comes your way.
I'm speaking to AD now online and he mentioned that we should meet up 'one day' together so that's one step forward... but I am trying to just be myself and have fun. You're right, I guess I am looking for another relationship but I feel it's more because that's where I am in life, not just to replace what I lost. But I am making myself aware of that as a possibility for some of my behaviours and thoughts.
excellent and i am glad he is asking you out.
and the key here is to enjoy the journey and not have a destination in mind
Thanks Jen, am definitely trying to do that now and mostly feel amazing with the possibilities that lay ahead of me. Ha well, he asked me out without a set date to go out... but its something :)
see you came here with your desires and poof you got it!
you are healed...LOL
I truly believe in the universe giving you what you wish for ...
haha you're a mirale worker thats why ;)
and it is so important for you to just be so let yourself.
thanks again for your support. I actually work in psych and I know it can be hit and miss finding someone you can connect with but Ive really appreciated your support and style so thank you. Ill keep you posted :)
but as I said yto yu last time we worked together, you know yourself so follow it and keep calm and enjoy
Yep, all about keeping my impatience and anxiety around uncertainty in check... am working on it!
my pleasure and yes I remember your work...that could be a good thing or not as you may analyze it all...so less analysis and MORE enjoyment
if things ar eright we can all be patient with it and enjoy the whoe ride
Thanks Jen :) All the best
Keep this thought in your head when you are out there.... JUST BE
you too. talk soon