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I dont think he would even be up for counseling. He refuses

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I don't think he would even be up for counseling. He refuses to even leave the house unless he's working or he has to. Even the thought of spending the money on such would make him even more mad. I am out of options of staying, and considering leaving....soon.
Submitted: 5 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Howard Wise replied 5 years ago.
I think this came to me by mistake. Who were you working with on this?
Customer: replied 5 years ago.
It was you. I accepted the answer before I could reply.
Expert:  Howard Wise replied 5 years ago.
Oh, I see. Would you like to ask a follow-up question? There's no charge for that.
Customer: replied 5 years ago.
Conseling is not really an option. I don't know what else to do but leave. Should I?
Expert:  Howard Wise replied 5 years ago.
To be honest, it sounds like a very bad situation, both for you and your son. If your boyfriend is not interested in counseling I would take that to mean that he is not interested in working on your relationship and making it better. So, I think leaving might be the only option at this point. After you separate you can reassess the situation and see if there is any chance to work things out.
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