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so i have been decrease my contact, and to my surprise he initiated

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so i have been decrease my contact, and to my surprise he initiated contacted all this week. i say him briefly yesterday, we chatted for about an hour. i did tell him i had missed him and he said the same because we hadn't see each other in almost two weeks. now i am wondering how i should proceed. let do i call him today? i guess i just don't want him to think i am pulling away because i know he has some insecurities himself.

I would just take it slow. You can call him, but don't start with doing that every single day. Let him miss you a little but. Be there, but you don't have to be all over him right away.
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