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If I remember correctly, he was willing to give you access to the storage unit , but you would have to sign in and out i order to get through the main gate. You were reluctant to give him an accounting of your time.
Hire a moving company (or a smaller 2 men and a truck arrangement) and move it all out in one fell swoop. Or, if that's not possible, rent a tiny space yourself in the same storage facility for one month. They will give you the gate access card you want, and then you'll be able to move your stuff from 'his' unit a bit at a time.
I've never heard of a mutual restraining order. It seems we've taken this discussion about the belongings through to a conclusion. Once you've accepted the advice from Cathy, me (or both), try writing to the legal experts here at Just Answer for advice about the restraining order.
And when all this is behind you, consider making a few appointments with a therapist to process all that has happened, so the bitterness of this relationship doesn't poison the next one.
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