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I became too intimate, too soon, with a friend. How could

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I became too intimate, too soon, with a friend. How could i keep him interested?
Submitted: 5 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Cathy replied 5 years ago.

Cathy :

Hi Gina and thank you for writing JA

Cathy :

I think in order to give you the best possible answer we would need more details on this relationship and more background. Why dont you share some additional information and I am happy to help you on this> warm regards, Cathy

Customer :

he was my friend for about a year. during that time he was seriously involved with someone else. and also during that time I always wanted him, but never told him. As soon as they broke up...I seduced him - I think I surprsied him and maybe disappointed him because it was so quickly after his other realtionship and he wasn't ready. I don't want to lose him. we were good friends with each other, but I think I damaged that by coming on to him so quickly and he might not be willing to call me or see me because he's not ready and doesn't want to be involved like that. I think I should have given him some time to recover from "her" - but I jumped at the opportunity. Now I'm sorry I did. Can this be recovered? How?