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Hi and thanks for writing JA
why do you care?
Thanks for the clarification of this question so we can best help you from JA. Cathy
because she acts so jealous, she makes me feel like i'm the other woman, i feel she has little respect for me as another woman and she doesn't respect our relationship, whether it lasts or not, she should still show me some respect as a person. In the past she has called me and harrassed me and called me nasty names, she put a dent in my car door. She has calmed down, but i feel that she is trying to shove their long relationship in my face, I don't totally understand her behavior because these are things I would not do to my ex's current girlfriend, no matter how I felt about the relationship, I would still show him and her some respect.
Just trying to understand her, never dealt with this type of behavior before
How old are you?
Okay look, adults dont behave this way so I thought for sure you were a teenager.
I dont understand at all how she can make you feel anything. Adults are not controlled so how does anyone make you feel anything?
and is this relationship that unstable that you actually think about this?
You are 31 and involved with a guy that you are so insecure about that you actually care what his ex thinks?
Look why dont you sit down and think about this a bit and write us back. I am happy to help you on this but I dont think you have communicated this as you had wished. The way this is written is not what I think you meant to write. Just let us know. Cathy