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my ex boyfriend dumped me 2 days ago. i acted like the typical

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my ex boyfriend dumped me 2 days ago. i acted like the typical 5 don'ts a woman does, if not more damage to surely push him very far away. he had just given me a chance and i blew it being inscure low self esteem, & scared him off by being so depressed about it, long story short he saw the police take me in for 5150 er when i sat in my cr crying for an hour(my cousin called the cops) . i would like another chance again. he had a huge career test and failed he asked to plz not contact him his lifes not going the way he wanted it too. i replied to him nicely respecting his wishes, but how do i get him back??

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Gender: Female
Age: 27

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bought get your ex boyfriend back audio book, trying to not be the stalker obessive girl, and reading power of now, also taking my meds from phyristrist for my depression.
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  psychlady replied 6 years ago.
The key is to be compliant with your treatment so that you are okay. You have to be stable to be in a relationship too. Then write him a letter or email telling him how you feel and to not hold this incident against you. You may find if you are patient and don't go overboard that he may reconsider. Until it is hopeless try to communicate in a caring and considerate way. You have to see if he is willing before you panic

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