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How do you decide whether you are in a relationship with a

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How do you decide whether you are in a relationship with a good person with toxic qualities, or a toxic person?
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  psychlady replied 6 years ago.
You can see someone as a "good" person or as having values that you see as positive. However whether they are good or bad if they are toxic to you then that is all that matters. If a person is toxic you should avoid that type of person good or bad. A person can be good and still be harmful to you and that is a toxic person in your life. You need to focus on what is toxic to you even if they are kind, gentle, considerate, etc. Those other qualities won't matter if they have a toxic relationship with you. Focus on keeping yourself away from negative influences
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