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How to have the talk without scaring off the guy

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How to have "the talk" without scaring off the guy?
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  psychlady replied 6 years ago.

Approach it very delicately. Don't lay it on him all at once. Start with "we really get long well. I love it that we can communicate" Then wait it a little while and ask him where the relationship is going. "I want to know that we aren't seeing other people. Is that you want you want too?" This isn't threatening or pushy. I hope that you can approach a step by step process. It's take patience but you will get your answers. Gauge this by his words and behavior. If he backs off then it may take a while




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