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Dr.G., Psychologist
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Experience:  Licensed Psychologist in the state of Minnesota
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I am married, I became friendly with an older man at work,

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I am married, I became friendly with an older man at work, we hit it off & got on really well. I let this man know I was attracted to him, he expressed the same feeling towards me. Then our contact became more regular, until he suggested we meet. At first he was back & forth about meeting, cancelled us meeting a few times, then when we did meet, he was very touchy feely & kissed me, I recipricated & so we met again, again he was very touchy feely, kissed me (publicly). He says if it wasnt for being married it would have gone further, when we were together, at work or not he was very into me, that was clear from his behaviour. We don't see each other at work really now & because we don't though we speak occasionally he is very distant when we do. I have feelings for him & don't know what to do about them, I asked to see him again but not directly, he has ignored this suggestion
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Dr.G. replied 6 years ago.
What is your question?
Customer: replied 6 years ago.
How do I deal with this, what do I do?
Expert:  Dr.G. replied 6 years ago.
For starters..........YOU ARE MARRIED!!! What are you doing hanging around and kissing this other guy. If you want to save your marriage then get the other guy out of your life. Otherwise, end the marriage and go have the fling with this guy.