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What does it mean when you want a relationships with someone

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What does it mean when you want a relationships with someone then you change your mind all the time. One day you do and then you dont.
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  psychlady replied 6 years ago.
Do try to figure out why you are going back and forth. This can be for instance a fear of commitment, a fear of being together with one person for a long time, being insecure, a history of breakups, etc. There are many reasons particular to one person. You really shouldn't involve someone in this back and forth unless you are totally and completely honest that you have trouble committing. Be consistent in allowing the other person to make an informed decision. The most common reason for this is a fear of commitment. Like you may feel you are missing out on something better so you have the job of being honest with partners.
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