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Some of the things that sustain romance are: 1/ the desire to please your partner both sexually and emotionally, 2/ spontaneous activities/willingness to try new things both in the bedroom and otherwise, 3/ compromise, 4/ taking care of one's appearance (not neglecting oneself after a long partnership or marriage) 5/ doing things together ex: couple's massage, 6/ doing things for one another- candle lit dinner even if it is at home, giving each other a foot rub/back rub, just any activity that promotes physical not always sexual intimacy.
You can use the info if it is helpful to you. Some of it I've covered in my audio book