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my wife has made up her mind that she wants out by way of divorce,

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my wife has made up her mind that she wants out by way of divorce, she told me nothing I do or say will change her mind, she wants her divorce so her healing can start and she can put closure to the whole situation. She does not want to hear anything comeing from me about us, because there is no us she says, I told her this week that I love her, she ask me why I'm I still running on with foolishness. How do I deal with this in attemting to save my marriage
We have been married for 18 Years dating 7 years prior, have three girls 13,12 & 7, I denied a number of times having sex with another female and finnially I came out and admit it to her. The relationship / affair was cut off a month before i told the truth. she moved out two months later and took the girls and by that time she had already file for divorce, she said she seeks no reconcilation . She does not want any councel and said she has execise her God given rights and made up her mind and she wants a divorce. Is it true forgiveness to walk away and not wanting reconcile and save the marriage

We are both Christians and are leaders in the church

How do I deal with this
Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
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