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Hi Tyler and thanks for writing.
Yes I think you have a good chance of reconnecting with her sometime down the line. Nineteen years old is very young indeed and when she begins to think for herself she might very well think better of a relationship with you.
Even if her mother is very controlling, only children allow others to control their lives. Adults do not allow this.
Give her some time to grow up and see what happens?
let me know what you think?
Warm regards, Cathy
Hi Tyler and thanks for writing back. I dont think she is going to change her mind any time soon. I would not expect her to change her mind by Friday. I would say wait a year or two and see then.
I know you are really hurting now. We all do when we lose love relationships as you have. The thing is that you are going to feel better in time and you will get over this. The more that you try to contact this young woman the more you will drive her away. So let it go. Do not contact her no matter what. Get out there no matter how painful it might be and start to meet others. Do not wait for her.
I know you are in a great deal of pain just like millions before you and millions after you. A broken heart is the absolute worst. Just theworst. The key is to keep busy and let time put distance between you both.
I promise you will feel better in time and I suspect you will meet someone else more mature who will make you forget this woman ever lived.
Pretty sure anyway.
Do not contact her. Move forward and take good care of you.
Take very good care ofyou.
If you feel that talking to her is best for you than by all means do that, but also, at the same time understand that it will further antagonize her and her family and lessen the likelihood that at a time in the future this relationship can be salvaged. When you first posted you asked:
I wanna know if there is anyway i have a chance at getting her back either now or sometime in the future or if based on what i said her mom seems to have wrecked the possibility
When I advised you no contact it was in response to that question. Now you say that you think it would be best for you to speak with her and do not care if there is a future, in which case I say, do what is best for you.