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My girlfriend feels that she cant not have a connection with me because I was not stationed where she was in the air force and she clings to anyone that is relating to them and at times she can be a little flirty but that is just her personality I just want to know what i can do to make her happy it is all i care about and it just kills me that she thinks she cant have a connection with me because of that. I think the main reason why she is saying all of this is because one of the guys she was stationed with is now saying that she should leave me and influenceing her a lot to the point where i feel like i am loosing her i just want to make her happy she is the only person who ever makes me happy
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