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How do I handle a man who has had 3 marriages, lots of money,

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How do I handle a man who has had 3 marriages, lots of money, very stingy, has lost money with each divorce - really loves me, but afraid to get married and loose money in a future divorce. I love him and have no intention to divorce. have little money myself

He has proposed 10 times - I accept and then he changes his mind - he hopes that I will be an eternal girlfirend - he lives in different state and we see each other for 4 months in summer and about 2 weeks ever month rest of year = we have dated 2.4years
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Angela replied 7 years ago.
Hello my name is Angela.
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If he is that concerned, then the two of you could agree to have a prenuptial agreement drafted by a lawyer. You both should discuss if you want to do this and if so you should discuss the details of what should be in it. I understand his concern, however, at the same time he needs to be willing to further discuss this with you and the exact details of it. Also, it is a bit of a red flag that he has proposed 10 times and then changed his mind (-going beyond his concern for money).