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this man has been in my life along time we dated at 19 and

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this man has been in my life along time
we dated at 19 and were reunited 5 yrs ago.
first we were intimate ..then we were not for over a year
then we were intimate for another year
then i told him i couldnt be his friend with fringe benfits
since then .. we are not really in touch
i reach out sometimes he chooses to answer sometimes not
the other day we spoke he came by and when he left we made out
then he called the next morning
since then i have reached out to see if he wanted to come by and he chose not to answer

is he a narcissist?
shall i ask him why he does this?
or just leave him be?

Submitted: 6 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Angela replied 6 years ago.
Hello my name is Angela.
I am more than happy to assist you with your questions by giving you my honest and respectful opinion.

I am sorry for this difficult time you are going through. It is possible that he could be a narcissist, however, for your own mental and emotional well being I suggest asking him why he behaves in the manner that he does. Also, based upon his previous track record, he may not answer you. If he chooses not to answer you, I think you should definitely move on with him being permanently out of your life (again for your mental and emotional well being). If he does answer you, then you should discuss with him what it is you want out of your friendship and what it is he wants out of it and see if the two of you can agree on a compromise that you both feel good about.
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