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My husband of 30yrs and myself have seperated. We have livd seperatly for almost 2 yrs. We both daate other people. He has disrespected me over and over in the past 2 yrs. He talks horrible about me to the other women... almost as if he needs an agenda for her to be with him. He filed in court for divorce, but has realized he does not want the court and or police involved in our life. He went to the judge and told him he wanted to reconcile with me and that very night slept in a hotel with the girlriend. He wanted me to move back in and I told him due to all the pain I needed time to Date him, see how he could treat me?? He continud to be with her. He told her we were geting back together in 2 months.. she decided to hang out she said she didnt mind because she enjoyed him??? Im physically sick ver this, my heart is toen.. I date a wonderful much younger man.. a gem, but hard for me to see a long term relationship.. evwn though he says he will be with me and marry me?? HELP!!
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