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Hello! I am dealing with a former ex that has a current girlfriend that has major jealousy/trust issues. He and I have business that we are dealing with and have to go out of town and if she was more emotionally stable and realized that he and I are just friends, she would be okay. However, she has major trust issues with him and I just told him I am not allowing her to come on this trip especially if she will potentially cause problems. I am not typically a jealous woman and in the past when it came to dealing with jealousy, I am human, but I typically will tell the man he can go to the new woman. I just will not allow this girl to come and make me uncomfortable. To me, if she really loves him, then she should trust him or if not let him go. I think I am doing the right thing by setting the boundaries.
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