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my husband got close to a female co worker and i found out

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my husband got close to a female co worker and i found out he had been calling her on the phone he says he doesnt know why he was calling her they never talked about any thing but work and our grandkids and stuff. we have been married for 34 years and i will admit we didnt spend enough time toghether due to our grown daughter and our grandkids live at home still. i just recently found out he slept with her two times in march,he says he doesnt know why he did it and cant even remember her asking him to come over,he went there after work once and then a week later again,he says he only remembers bits and pieces he swears he would never do that to me,she had been flirting lately but he says he ignored it,he isnt the type to do this,he is a big family man. our sex life has not been the best lately because i have been battling some female problems but he swears thats not why.we were wondering if he could of been drugged with ghb or liquid extacy,she has access to his water drink .
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
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Customer: replied 7 years ago.

my husband says everything is foggy and piecy as to what happened to him he wonders if he was drugged to get him to have sex with his female co worker he trusted her to be a friend remembers going to her house but not why or what she said to get him there .


Expert:  Anna replied 7 years ago.

I think your husband is lying to you. This sounds like the classic affair, and he got caught. I can understand that you want to believe the strange story, but he's bluffing. It's normal to have some shock and denial when you find out things like this, but I've head this story so many times you'd think they share a book or something. Your husband knew what he was doing, they weren't talking about grandkids and he's lying to you.

Sorry to say all that, but I'm glad you caught him. You did catch him.


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