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No, I do not trust her. She has lied to me repeatedly about her relationship with another old boyfriend. I caught her cheating with him and it almost ended our relationship. In addition, I've seen texts from men she has known and there were inappropriate sexual jokes and comments made. She is very outgoing when around others and tends to touch men during social discussions. I don't think her inner discipline kicks in early enough to make me comfortable when she is around her old boyfriends.
She has pledged to be true to me and respond to concerns I have about cutting off relations with previous boyfriends. I have tried to break up with her repeatedly but we seem to always get back together.
Just one more question, she has said she will steer clear of her old boyfriends but she seems to call Tony when I get fed up with her hostile and mean attitude.
Today, one of her old boyfriends callled while I was with her and she simply said "I am with Jim" to him twice. She didn't tell him to stop contact, she just said that she was with me. Am I wrong to expect her to tell this guy that we are working on a long term relationship and not to contact her?
I am so addicted to sex with her that I don't have a desire for another woman. I can pick up loads of nice women but I just don't want them like I do Donna.
Your thoughts are appreciated.