Thank you so much for that quick response. Some more info first:
Yes it was a Gay relationship, however me nor him were at or probably still aren't at a stage to 'come out' hence why only a few friends knew. Gender is not what im attracted to, girl or guy it does not bother me, its the relationship between me and either a guy or girl that matters to me. As for the guy, i think he spread rumours because the 2 of them were pretty close friends and i dont think he liked the guy i was seeing spending so much time with me.
We have plenty of mutual friends and because of this there has been 21st bdays that i beleive he hasnt attended and ones i havent just because it seems like we wont to avoid it. I have been to other nightclubs with mutual friends of ours and he has been there with other mutual friends, and it seems we both just steer clear of each other. I do not have any hate towards him, and even if things werent to go back to how they are i just want to not have an aukward situation due to the high number of mutual friends we have.
I dont have a phone number for him anymore as it has changed. But i do have his email address, should i write something to that? Or does that look weak? I dont want it all lovey duby either, i have stared in to a blank screen for hours trying to think what to write.
Thank you again, this means a lot to me