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His older son has a drinking problem, and his younger son has some responsibility issues. From what I gather, he's spoiled them both a bit. His daughter also had a baby last week.
One thing I noticed he tends to treat me like a psychologist instead of a girlfriend from time to time. He kept saying he wanted to move slowly in the relationship, but he kept putting everything on me, asking if it was too soon to sleep together and so on. We did have a talk where he said he tried to move slowly, he was saying one thing and doing something else. He's also about 30 years older than I am, and has been married twice before. I'm reading this and thinking how I really didn't think things through very well before getting involved with this guy.