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How can I fall in love my cheated husband again how can I

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How can I fall in love my cheated husband again? how can I trust him again?
Yes he cheated on me. Yes he dumped me. Yes he made me lost all of my confident. He treated me like a piece of **** while he had an affair.

17th of may 09 I caught him via email. He was in love with his colleague in another state.

I forgive him straight away and want him to work out for our married.
Took him for long time to stop the game.

Now we are back together. and he said sorry . he made a mistake and he tried to be a good dad and husband.
In fact I don;t love him any more but I stay with him because of kids. ( 4 and 6)
Everyday I live by day. I don;t know when my heart is expired.
I can not trust any men in this world except my father and my son.
And I think I keep him, better give him to someone else. He is still my father of my kids and still pay the bill.
However I believe. " Love never say sorry"

pls give me some advice how can I move on . forget all the past.......
How can I trust him again? How
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Dr. Keane replied 7 years ago.
Hi and welcome

As you are finding out forgiveness is very hard for most people to really do 100%. I would suggest you and your husband go to marriage counseling to find your way back and let go of the past. You have been hurt, your trust violated and trust is at the very core of every marriage, you don't have trust you can't have a marriage. Counseling will help.
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