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my boyfriend of 13 years has been in and out of prison about

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my boyfriend of 13 years has been in and out of prison about 90 percent of the time we have been together. Ilove him very much but I have been involved with other men each time he went away and each time I do I end up with a guy who always treat me wrong.My question is what can I do to stay faithful to my boyfriend and still be happy?
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Cathy replied 7 years ago.

Hi steeler and thanks for using


Picture youself in five years and imagine who you want to be with? a boyfriend in prison, an abusive boyfriend or someone who treats you well.

You cant be happy with your current boyfriend so cut him loose and move on.

I would also advise a few sessions with a counselor to try some brief treatment to help you explore your choices as go men.

You have all my best on this steeler, good luck


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Edited by Cathy on 12/19/2009 at 3:09 AM EST
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