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Theres this guy i was dating and i used to talk to him about

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Theres this guy i was dating and i used to talk to him about how he still communicates with all of his exes (there are ALOT of them)and he still communicates with his girls that he had sex with. He never really calls me but we do hang out alot and he does alot for me and he claims to love me. But he broke up with me because he says i lack affection and (we started having sex about a month ago). Now that we are friends he still wants to act like were in a relationship help me please
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Dr Rossi replied 7 years ago.

Good Afternoon,


A clear definition should be made between being a couple and being just friends. Some times men rush into the physical side of the relationship and then you end up losing a friend (and if the relationship does not work out end up losing a boyfriend too)

If you have noticed that he had called the other women in the past, you need to find out why he is not calling you. Anyone can claim love but love is also expressed in actions not just words. Perhaps you ought to test him. No one who loves another and respects them would accuse them not being affectionate but rather try to help them understand how to make the relationship better and make things work out. It takes two to keep a relationship going so you ought not to feel guilty about what he had said to you. That is probably his excuse for his own lack of effort to make the relationship strong.

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