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Hi there how to accepted partner past and forget about they

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Hi there how to accepted partner past and forget about they past and loving them as the way they are?
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Dr. Keane replied 7 years ago.
Hi and welcome

A person's past is just that, the past. Once it's over one cannot rewrite history.
You love someone for who they are presently. No one is perfect and everyone deserves a frest start. We do not come into this world without flaws and it's only by our mistakes that we learn as we grow. If you tell yourself you can love someone the way they are you will but if you keep ruminating about their past, can't get over it then you should not be in this relationship. You accept this person for who they are right now.
I hope this helps
Dr. Keane