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I have been married about 8 months. We never had sex before

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I have been married about 8 months. We never had sex before marriage; and I had no idea that he had ED. Although I brought up the subject of sex; I guess there was no real dialogue. He can masturbate and be satisfied. I However feel like he is the only one having sex in this relationship. I'm finding myself more and more resentful. He has a prescription for Viagra but feels it is to costly a purchase. After 13 years of single life (Sex, under christian law was a major decision for getting married) this is really a bit devastating. I'm physically and emotionally perturbed. Any solutions?
Submitted: 7 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  MugsyMD replied 7 years ago.
I am very sorry about this - since he can have an erection because he does satisfy himself, you should really talk more about why this is actually hurting your marriage - as a sexual relation is JUST as important as a verbal relationship, especially with women as they get older. Also, with men, sexual relations actually diminish as they get into their 40's and beyond - so this can be very frustrating for women too,. As a christian - and hopefully your husband is too - I would recommend christian counseling.
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