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Will Chelly ever come back to me again

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Will Chelly ever come back to me again?
Submitted: 8 years ago.
Category: Relationship
Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.

How long were you and Chelly involved?

Are you boyfriend/girlfriend?

When did you break up?

Thanks for all your additional details.

Customer: replied 8 years ago.

involved a year and a half

she was my girlfriend

broke up about two months ago

Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.
Hello again, and thanks for your reply. I just need a few more details about your situation, if you would be so kind:

What are your ages?

What was the cause of your break up?

Are you in contact at all, now?

Customer: replied 8 years ago.

Iam 52 and Chelly is 29

we are gay and she left with a guy

hardly no contact spoke yesterday 07/31

Expert:  Cher replied 8 years ago.
Hi again, and thanks for your reply with additional information.

If she left with a guy, it's possible that she decided to try something else, and if it doesn't work out, she will come back to you. If you hadn't communicated since you broke up, but did speak to her yesterday, that's a good sign. If you continue to keep up the contact, but are not 'smothering', you'll give her an opportunity to think about you and she might decide to return to you because you made her happy. When you speak to her or have contact in whatever way (email, texting, etc.), only speak about the great times you had and the future and don't make her feel badly or argue about her leaving. You can let her know you were hurt by her actions (don't dwell on it or argue about it), and you thought you had something 'special', but if she's happy, you're glad for her, and you hope you can continue to keep in touch. As long as you are in contact, there's always a chance you can get back together.

I hope things work out for you!

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