The girl told me the other day that when her mom and dad got divorced she was the one that kept him together and cared for him (utter nonsense) when I met him they were dirty and just not looked after at all! She hates me being the women of the house, she wants to be the women of the house. She loves lying on the bed ontop of my husband and taking up all his time, she talks to him like he is her playmate and I took her on about it - I told her he is her father and she needs to speak with respect.
They told me once that I must just know I will never be a mommy and its their daddy's house - even the bond the registered 50% in my name and I pay all the running costs and the bond.
They never clean up after themselves and I always have to tell them to do it - the days of asking is long gone.
We in South Africa, we don't belong to a church and no-one wants to look after them - they are unruely and just plain naughty and ugly.
I never fight with their dad infront of them ... its days like today when we don't really talk - and she will push herself onto him, go to work with him and just be all over him all the time.
I once heard her say it will be better if its just them again.
They don't like me and they call me names behind my back ... even I give them everything, but you know you can't keep on being nice if that is the reaction you get from them.
I don't like them anymore and I don't like seeing them ... they make me feel sick to my stomache ... its a huge problem for me and my husband.
He always takes their side ... they steal from me they call me names and nothing happens to them - he has never punished them, cause they come out of a broken home and its so difficult for them - my dad also came out of a broken home and he was not like that.
I know my hubby loves me ... but his kids are a problem to me ... I don't like being like this - its not my makeup to be so resentful and hateful (if there is a word like that) - it feels like they have reuined the perfect marriage / relationship.
I am 28, he is 43 and they are 14 & 11