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when i get my paycheck do my spouse owns half if i buy a…

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when i get my paycheck do my spouse owns half?
if i buy a boombox! do my spouse owns half?
if i buy a laptop do my spouse owns half?
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Counselor: Cher, Relationship Enthusiast replied 9 years ago
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Hi,

When you get your paycheck, it's yours, but most married couples do put their salaries together in a joint bank account, to pay household expenses.

Married couples do each own half of everything in the home, bought together, but if you buy something for yourself and do not want to share it with your spouse, that's your choice.

If you can supply more details about a specific incident or situation that happened between you and your spouse, I will try to help further.


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Customer reply replied 9 years ago
we do not have a joint account. but she always this is the law in philadelphia! i must give her 300.00 every paycheck! if i don't i am breaking the law!
Counselor: Cher, Relationship Enthusiast replied 9 years ago
Hello again, and thanks for your reply.

There is no law that says you must give your wife a certain amount from your paycheck, if you are currently married.

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